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Lalou West - Berlin & beyond

Etiquette
Before the Date
The Date
For our first meeting, I ask every new client to complete a simple screening process. The right connection will recognize this not as a hurdle, but as part of the care and professionalism that create a safe, discreet, and relaxed experience for us both.
Trust and privacy are at the heart of what I do. Your information will always be handled with the utmost confidentiality and deleted once verification is complete. My intention is simply to ensure that our time together begins in a space of ease and mutual confidence.
To make this process as comfortable as possible, you may choose one of the following options:
• A reference from a well-established companion (no agencies)
• ID or driver’s licence verification (sensitive details may be redacted)
• LinkedIn profile verification
• A verified social media account (such as Instagram)
• A brief 3-5 minute video call for mutual reassurance
• A small booking transfer or deposit
To secure our time together, I ask for a 20% deposit for all dates of 6 hours or longer within Berlin.
For all travel dates and tour locations, a 30% deposit applies.
Deposits and travel costs are handled discreet and securely via payment link.
The remaining balance can be settled in cash at the beginning of our date.
Discretion lies at the heart of everything I do. Your privacy will always be treated with care and respect.
If it brings you additional peace of mind, I’m happy to sign a non-disclosure agreement at the beginning of our time together, so you can fully relax and enjoy the experience.
A beautiful encounter deserves a beautiful setting. Please arrange a minimum 4-star hotel for our date. Somewhere that feels both refined and relaxed.
If Berlin is unfamiliar territory, I’ll be happy to guide you toward a place that matches our mood.
Should you prefer to leave the arrangements to me, I’ll gladly take care of everything. In that case, the hotel costs can be transferred in advance via Hotelgiftcard or another suitable gift card.
While gifts are never expected, they are always received with genuine delight.
For those who enjoy thoughtful gestures, I keep a carefully curated wishlist which you can explore here (https://throne.com/lalouwest).
Many of the pieces are perfect to bring along or to surprise me with ahead of our meeting and if you do, I’ll happily make sure it becomes part of our time together.
Of course, it’s often the smaller yet thoughtful touches that feel especially charming: beautiful flowers, fine chocolates, a generous tip, or perhaps a favorite book of yours. I have a soft spot for discovering new ideas, stories, and perspectives.
After all, the most memorable encounters often begin with a little bit of thoughtful anticipation.
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